Ask yourself the same question: “Would you change your religious beliefs to marry the person you love? Why or why not?”
Personally, this question is a non-issue. Inserting religion into marriage or any social functions, like medical practice or education, for example, is intrusive and self-indulgent. Love, to achieve its ultimate goal, must be unconditional. But if someone feels he/she can insert or force his/her religion into marriage, he/she needs to re-evaluate his or her purview about what constitutes well-being in a marital relationship and how it flourishes.
Miss Angola, in my view, got away with an easy answer. There is nothing more ubiquitous than the issue of physical and racial differences. I will not fault Shamcey for her answer. Shamcey’s question is definitely an issue that many can agree to disagree on. Shamcey grew up in a culture and country that considers being religious as a sort of a birthright. Where religion takes precedence and valued over everything else and takes hold on politics, education and government.
Despite Shamcey’s higher education, mental and intellectual acuity, her answer failed to do her justice. It’s an example of how perfectly intelligent and normal people get to say nonsensical answers because of religion. Imagine what an ordinary Arab woman would feel and think.
Shamcey’s answer further reinforces the religious injunction and limitations that women in her country are already experiencing. Or a western woman would be shocked to hear Shamcey’s answer as contrary to her democratic beliefs of gender and religious equality. As a Miss Universe aspirant, she also represents these women from other nations, not just the Philippines.
Shamcey only has 30 seconds to answer and gave the best answer she could come up with. Her answer is OK for Filipinos but apparently not enough for the rest of the world, or the judges.
—ALLAN ESPINOSA, philosopher and atheist, Sydney Australia; aespinosa@y7mail.com